he's just NOT that into you.

Yep. This is where the story ends! Hmm. During this trying and 'soul searching' period of my life, I have come across a revelation; an epiphany, if you will. With some help from a nice little book, I know, that if someone isn't making an effort, they're not into you. I'm done wasting my time trying to date someone who is wasting my time because they don't want to date me but have no balls to say, I don't want to date you anymore. Maybe I am just over reacting because I am a very over analytical and emotional person, but maybe I should just listen to my gut. Only time will tell.

Cut your losses and don't waste your time . Why stay in some weird dating limbo when you can move on to what will surely be better territory? Don't want to hear it? Fine. Here's the answer you're looking for, "Hang in there, baby. He's not the loser everybody's telling you he is. If you wait and keep your mouth shut and call at exactly the right time and anticipate his moods and have no expectations about communication, you can have him!" But please don't be surprised if he dumps you or continues to drag you through a completely unsatisfying relationship.
-He's Just Not That Into You


PS: I am no longer on Facebook (I know, right?) so my real friends [my 2 that read this ;)] will have to contact me in real life! lovelove


Miss Alyss said...

I agree with this...no sense in wasting your time on someone who is making zero effort. NOT worth it.

And yes, Meggers and I will contact you in real life from now on lol. I can't wait for summer, when we'll be around each other more! Leah, you are truly one of our very best friends : )

Anonymous said...

Hang in there! Great things come to those who wait! Have a good one!

Meagan Linn said...

we will contact you in real life! for sure!! and guys shouldn't waste our time! now is the time to enjoy being single and do things you want to and won't be able to when you're attached to someone. so yay for singlehood. it sucks sometimes, but we have to remember the good and have a good time with the time we have :)

Leah said...

I'm holding out for Ryan :)